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Are You Lying to Yourself?

When we act like everything in our life is perfect, especially to our friends, we're not just putting up a front for them. We're also telling ourselves that we're not good enough as we are. If we really felt good about ourselves, we'd be okay with sharing our true selves, including our weaknesses and mistakes. But often, we feel we're not good enough, so we try to show a better version of ourselves. This can actually make us feel worse about ourselves. 
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Cancel Culture

What is CANCEL CULTURE? 

Definition: 
1. Refers to the practice of withdrawing support for (canceling) public figures and companies after they have said or done something considered as objectionable or offensive. Cancel Cukture is generally discussed as being performed on social media in the form of group shaming

2. Cancel Culture is the practice of publicly rejecting and ending support for people or groups based on their views or actions. 


Hate is a virus ... 
it's contagious ... 
it is worse than any kind of pandemic ... 

Hate can kill people ... 
hate can easily take down a company ... even the billion-dollar ones
hate is the end of humanity ... 

But why is that we even entertain "HATE" in our lives? ... even if we know most of its repercussions leads to destruction. 

Maybe we can have a better understanding of "HATE" when we know what fuels it ... where its leading to. 

Maybe a long time ago, watching Disney on a plain black and white television doesn't make the cut to give full meaning to what you're watching. You just hated back then seeing Mickey Mouse in plain black inks. In this view, hate has brought light to colors ... people now enjoy Disney cartoons in full colors and animations. Surely, hate did something good in here. 

But what about in the CANCEL CULTURE? ...   

Cancel Culture is now the talk of the town in Korea ... where a couple of K-Idols are already being dismissed because of this phenomenon. 

It is a sad culture indeed. 

Cancel Culture doesn't only happen in Korea. It happens around the world. It was a wildfire ... taking down life .... career ... dreams. We all know it's happening; we may have (at some point) fuel this kind of culture. Because we romanticize everything!  

Yes, we romanticize everything ... The sad thing about it is that ... not all of it are sweet!!! (mind you) 

Oh! what now? .... I heard you say ... "I hate this culture!" ... 
well Dear ... this is the kind of "culture" we should totally be abolishing! forgetting! and must totally burn to the ground of never heard of!!! 

We should learn to disarm Cancel Culture! 

I understand that we have different views and opinions ... I get it ... but it should not (not at all cost!) be at fault in the fall of someone or closure of a company in where people working there are at stake, 

I hope someday, people will learn to do the KKK method  ... Kiss-KICK-Kiss 

By what it's worth, 
go rant on the internet ... flag all your emotions until you get viral
and maybe in that process ... hopefully, you'll achieve what you're aiming for in the first place 

But when you rant ... can you please apply the KKK method 

Criticisms are good ... in a way that it leads to making people you wish to address your message will get what you mean ... in a good way. Nothing the bad and the good ... because in all honesty, there is really something good, before it even got bad. 

Let's be not warriors of what we don't understand ... 
Don't hop in on a bandwagon you don't know where its heading ... 
and please ... think before you tag everything bad          

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Thank you for your time. 





Disclaimer: 
This is just my view and opinion to the above matter. I don't mean to hurt or imply anything negatively to anyone or affect the society in a bad way. My aim is to just give you a penny for your thoughts. Thank you for understanding and bless your kind soul my dear readers. 

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